Pets and Babies

Preparing for Baby's Arrival

• Desensitization: Gradually introduce your dog to sounds that will be common with a baby. Play recordings of baby cries, laughter, and other typical sounds at low volumes and gradually increase them over time. You can pair this with the sight of a baby doll in a crib or rocker.

• Establish Boundaries & Create a Safe Space: designate specific areas as offlimits to your dog, such as the baby's crib or changing table. Use baby gates or other physical barriers to enforce these boundaries. Create a quiet and comfortable "zen den" for your dog to retreat to when feeling overwhelmed. This space should include comfortable bedding, toys, and access to water.

• Prepare for Schedule Changes: Anticipate the disruptions to your pet's routine when the baby arrives. Implement changes to their schedule, such as decreased playtime or adjustments to walks, well in advance.

• Essential Training: Before the baby arrives, teach your dog essential commands like "go to place" and "leave it." These commands will be invaluable for safety and managing interactions.

Bringing the Baby Home

• Initial Introductions:

◦ Keep initial introductions calm and low-key. Avoid making a big fuss over the baby's arrival. Allow your dog to sniff the baby from a safe distance and gradually increase proximity.

◦ Supervised interactions are key. Hold the baby securely and allow your dog to sniff you while holding the baby. Avoid unsupervised interactions, especially when the baby is on the floor.

◦ If your dog exhibits excitement (jumping, barking) when you return home, implement a short "cool-down" period before entering the house.

• Controlled Interactions: When introducing your pets to the baby, have one person hold the baby securely and another person control the pet with a leash or harness. Watch for any signs of unwanted behaviour and calmly interrupt interactions if needed.

• Enrichment & Comfort: Provide your dog with plenty of enrichment activities, such as puzzle feeders, chew toys, and interactive games. Provide these near your dog while you hold the baby to provide them with a calming and rewarding experience.

• Attention & Bonding: Make a conscious effort to interact with your dog even when the baby is awake and active. While the baby sleeps, you can provide your dog

with more focused attention.

Monitoring & Addressing Concerns

• Signs of Stress:

◦ Be vigilant for signs of stress in your dog, such as excessive panting, pacing, yawning, lip licking, whale eye, tucked tail, or a sudden loss of appetite. And pay close attention to any changes in your dog's behaviour, such as increased anxiety, aggression, or destructive behaviours.

• When to Seek Help:

◦ Consult with your veterinarian or a certified professional dog trainer if you observe any concerning behaviours in your dog, such as aggression towards the baby, excessive anxiety, or destructive behaviours. Early intervention is crucial.

Other Considerations

• Maintain Exercise Routine: Daily walks and playtime are essential for your dog's physical and mental well-being.

• Consistent Training & Positive Reinforcement: Continue to practice obedience commands and reward your dog for appropriate behaviour around the baby.

• Be Patient & Understanding: Adjusting to a new family member takes time for both humans and dogs.

Cats and Babies

1. Safety First

• Never leave your cat unsupervised with the baby

• Prevent cats from sleeping on or near the baby. Use a breathable mesh cover over the crib/bassinet.

• Avoid allowing cat to sleep in cot/pram before baby’s arrival

2. Introduce Gradually

• Introduce your cat to the scentof the baby (clothes, blanket).

3. Provide Safe Spaces

• Offer high places (cat trees) & a cozy retreat for your cat.

4. Enrichment

• Continue playtime and provide enrichment activities.

5. Monitor

• Supervise all interactions. If concerned, consult abehaviour vet.

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Dr. Isabella Luk